There’s something really cool about this enoughness journey. The farther along we are in this work, the simpler the BEING/DOING dichotomy becomes. I was on the phone with a business bestie recently and she was…
Browsing Category Enoughness
The Illusion of Control
Storytime. I have this crazy neighbor. (Doesn’t everybody?) She is always up in everybody’s business. She has a bazilliondy plants on the patio (most of them dead). And she has interesting methods for trying to…
Unfuckwithable Enoughness
I remember in early sobriety hearing something about how people begin to trust us more when we’re sober. I didn’t really understand that — or I thought it didn’t really apply to me — because…
How I Bought My Best Friends
In 2016, I chose sobriety. And I lost my friends. Early sobriety was some of the loneliest time in my life, and I was confronted with nowhere to go with the emotions I felt about…
How to INSTANTLY Become More Castable, Hireable, Magnetic in LIFE!
Hello you glorious creature. Good headline, huh? Yeah… who WOULDN’T want to become *instantly* more attractive in all the right ways? Earlier this year, I hired an SEO expert to analyze what brings people to…
Confidence As Enoughness
I’m fairly confident that all successful entrepreneurs have this in common: We’ve found a way to “do it scared.” See, we all feel the fear. From an evolutionary perspective, we’re wired for safety. So, being…
Unapologetic Self-Care
Here’s how today went. I woke up when I felt like it and started my day with Abraham-Hicks MP3s while prepping and eating Whole30 goodness from Territory Foods. 💫🌱 Did some work with the hubs…
Star Quality Starts with Enoughness
Hello beautiful people! I saw a wonderful play this weekend and here’s what made it wonderful: Donzell Lewis. Yes, I’m biased because, yes, I’ve adored Donzell since the inimitable Quincy Cho brought him into my…
Acting While Black and Gay: A Story by Donzell Lewis
As I shared in this week’s BonBlast, Donzell Lewis is the personification of charisma as Goldie in the world premiere play, Dope Queens. When I told Donzell I wanted to write about him — and…
How to Beat Overwhelm
If you follow me on Instagram, you saw this little bit of gorgeousness over the weekend. Last week, I learned the word psychometrician and shortly thereafter, I put it out there in my Insta Stories…