I was lunching with one of my very favorite people (a publicist I met nearly 20 years ago — we both knew the night we met, at a Talent Managers Association event — that we…
When Habit Becomes Identity
This is gonna be a quickie. It’s super basic, but big. There comes a point at which our habits become our identity. Meaning, we do certain things so much, habitually, that we go from being…
The Continuum of Work
We do some really cool things in Expansive Capacity every month. (If you’re looking for monthly deep-dive masterminds, apply to join us here.) During our most recent meeting, we turned our attention to the difference…
Sledgehammer vs. Sandpaper
Something came up during our first live Zoom for the enoughness membership of Get in Gear for the Next Tier last week that was pretty *ooooh* to everyone not in on the shorthand. So much…
Bonnie Gillespie’s Recommended Books for Actors and All Creative Leaders
Y’all know I *love* to read. I’m super passionate about recommending books that have had a positive effect in my life or the lives of those I’m lucky enough to jam with every day. That…
Pronoia and Willful Blindness
I have a question for you. It’s about your setpoint. Do you believe that someone is always running game on you? Out to get you? Taking advantage of you? Or do you believe that everything…
🏆 Celebrate with me! 🏆
21 years ago today, I moved (back) to LA. (I had done the LA thing after college… just in time for the Northridge Quake to welcome me to Hollywood for real… then send me back…
Future Tripping and Enoughness
Today the hubs and I went in for our annual money talk with Ray the CPA. This is the meeting we have every December to review our revenue, move around where money lives so it…
No One Taught Us How to Be Happy
There’s a very interesting conversation going on in my Expansive Capacity membership this month — and it’s extending beyond the membership space and out into our real lives as we connect with one another socially…
Freebies from Bonnie Gillespie
Hello you glorious creature. 🙂 Last week I asked you to share some specifics with me about what it would take for you to be your best self for 2020. I showed you the results…