Outsourcing Enoughness

As I write this, we are driving back from “my other office,” an oasis in the desert just north of Palm Springs that’s been a getaway for almost 12 years. We’ve concluded our 6th (and…

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A Letter to Our First Member

I’m going through some pretty heavy-duty upper-limit problems, impostor syndrome, and enoughness fluctuations as we expand Brand Bonnie Gillespie beyond its comfy showbiz niche. What does that mean to you? Well… nothing unless you also…

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888 Days Sober

I remember Googling. I Googled a lot. It was always something like, “How to drink in moderation,” “How to moderate drinking,” and even, “How to negotiate sobriety.” Wow. A whole lot of scrolling, reading, searching……

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Friendsless at Facebook

One of my favorite things to say about Facebook is this: “I have no friends.” Seriously. Search me on FB if you’d like. I have no friends. Okay, technically I have ONE and that’s for…

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Are You a Guru Hunter?

It wasn’t like this never happened before, it’s just really happening a LOT since Sam Christensen died. The email goes, “Dear Bonnie. I like your book and I think your advice is solid. I see…

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