In just under an hour, this will read 06-07-08-09-10-11 — but I’ll be hosting the Goddess Mistressmind at that moment, so this will have to do. I mark the moments I’m sober in so many…
Browsing Category Enoughness
Finish this sentence:
FIRST: Thank you! Whoa, did I get a LOT of feedback on the last BonBlast. Y’all, truly. I treasure you. Thank you, thank you, and thank you some more. My heart hugs your heart. NEXT:…
unbotheredness
This is getting good. Not in the way I ever would've measured it years ago, but absolutely in the way I measure things now. I'm writing the email version of this post to you… YOU…
What Are You Making This Mean?
I’ve always given credit to Brené Brown for this question, but the internet is not helping me confirm that attribution. So, let’s just say it’s a very Brené-Brown-like question: “What are you making this mean?”…
Whiteboards: Before and After
Click for Instagram version. These may not look that different, but they represent a significant shift in focus, which makes a big difference in how my work gets done, how I show up in the…
So Long, “Type A”
Here’s my lazy-ass #Top9 of 2021. Click to see on Instagram. Y’all like my words, my sobriety, and my occasional passalong meme. 🦋 That’s about right. ✔ Bye, 2021. I slept more this year than…
End the Artist-Sick-Cycle with Boundaries
Hello, gorgeous. I hope your life is feeling like a good place to be right now. Always, actually. But right now is the time I'm in front of you, so we'll call it now. 😉…
Proof of Possibility
Some folks don’t need much proof that something can be done in order to try it for themselves. Others need to see someone succeed… and that *someone* needs to be a lot like them in…
5 Years Sober
This is the work. 5 Years Sober (wee Instagram post) 4 Years Sober (blog post) 3 Years Sober (blog post — full version here) 2 Years Sober (oh hey, I actually *did* post before the…
The Reward for Boundaries
I’ve been making changes in my business recently. I’ve created more boundaries, changed my availability, increased my NO budget. I hadn’t noticed how anxious and obsessed and dark I had gotten, continuing to do such…