It’s the time of year that creatives start dreading the trip home… not because travel is a hassle, not because leaving town right as some of the best gigs do a little casting is risky,…
Browsing Category Enoughness
How to Be More by Doing Less
There’s something really cool about this enoughness journey. The farther along we are in this work, the simpler the BEING/DOING dichotomy becomes. I was on the phone with a business bestie recently and she was…
The Illusion of Control
Storytime. I have this crazy neighbor. (Doesn’t everybody?) She is always up in everybody’s business. She has a bazilliondy plants on the patio (most of them dead). And she has interesting methods for trying to…
Unfuckwithable Enoughness
I remember in early sobriety hearing something about how people begin to trust us more when we’re sober. I didn’t really understand that — or I thought it didn’t really apply to me — because…
How I Bought My Best Friends
In 2016, I chose sobriety. And I lost my friends. Early sobriety was some of the loneliest time in my life, and I was confronted with nowhere to go with the emotions I felt about…
How to INSTANTLY Become More Castable, Hireable, Magnetic in LIFE!
Hello you glorious creature. Good headline, huh? Yeah… who WOULDN’T want to become *instantly* more attractive in all the right ways? Earlier this year, I hired an SEO expert to analyze what brings people to…
Confidence As Enoughness
I’m fairly confident that all successful entrepreneurs have this in common: We’ve found a way to “do it scared.” See, we all feel the fear. From an evolutionary perspective, we’re wired for safety. So, being…
Unapologetic Self-Care
Here’s how today went. I woke up when I felt like it and started my day with Abraham-Hicks MP3s while prepping and eating Whole30 goodness from Territory Foods. 💫🌱 Did some work with the hubs…
Star Quality Starts with Enoughness
Hello beautiful people! I saw a wonderful play this weekend and here’s what made it wonderful: Donzell Lewis. Yes, I’m biased because, yes, I’ve adored Donzell since the inimitable Quincy Cho brought him into my…
Acting While Black and Gay: A Story by Donzell Lewis
As I shared in this week’s BonBlast, Donzell Lewis is the personification of charisma as Goldie in the world premiere play, Dope Queens. When I told Donzell I wanted to write about him — and…