Thank you! Whoa, did I get a LOT of feedback on the last BonBlast. Y’all, truly. I treasure you. Thank you, thank you, and thank you some more. My heart hugs your heart.
The subject of today’s post: “Finish this sentence” comes from this spectacular 7-minute interview I caught on YouTube the other day. Justine Bateman (sibling to Jason and major star in her own right) challenged us to finish the sentence that begins with fears about looking old, appearing as though we’ve aged, having evidence of the passage of time on our faces.
Here’s the interview. Seriously, watch it. The a-ha moment of how the END of that sentence is the thing we need to fortify our enoughness about was SO big for me. Of course it’s not about “fixing your face;” it’s about fixing the fear of what someone else thinking you’ve aged MEANS. Like, it means I have no value anymore… I’ll lose my lover… I’ll lose my career… I’ll never feel safe… whatever.
Even if you’re sure you’re secure about aging, someone you love is not. Watch it for them. Then, join me in STOPPING commenting on people’s appearances out there on social media or in person. Even when it’s “You look great,” there’s an underlying message of, “When I *don’t* say this, it means you look bad”. So, saying, “I love your energy” or “You look happy” does miles of good and it’s an easy enough commitment to join me in making.
I’m doing a free webinar I’m *really* excited about on Tuesday! You can grab your spot here (sign up even if you’re not sure you can make it live. That way you’ll get the workbook and link to access the replay after). It’s something so straightforward and EASY that I’m legit giddy to share it with you.
The ups, the downs, the everythings in life can be mapped out in a way that allow us to know how much longer we have to hold on before we get relief from the pressure we may be feeling. You know I love tracking patterns… I’ll show you how to love YOURS in a webinar we’re calling: “Are we there yet?” 😉 Tee hee!
Okay, so there’s one more thing. My beloved woo membership (a small group of creatives of different levels of astrological awareness) is going to experience a price increase and I want you to check it out — and to use the code LEGACYPRICING if you decide you’d like to give it a go — because using that code will get you all set with the lowest price we’ll ever offer… for the life of your LIVE YOUR CHART membership!
Ask anyone. I do NOT go up on prices for ongoing members of anything in my world. So, if you’ve wanted to jam with me (*and* score the bonus of monthly informal “Connect with Bon” sessions, in which sometimes as few as 10 of us hang out for an hour on Zoom with no agenda, no RSVP, no replay… just shooting the shit OR deep-diving on some really all-over-the-place and yummy topics together), the LIVE YOUR CHART membership may be the best way to make that happen. It’s certainly the lowest-priced way to jam with me. 🙂
Q FOR MY DOG PEOPLE:
As you may know, I am experiencing the joy of my first-ever puppy. He is *not* food-motivated. Is that a thing? All the training stuff talks about using food as motivation and this little Gemini love rocket is just ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ about it all. Just want to be sure that’s a thing. 😉 Thanks!
Okay, for real. I’m done. Love love love is flowing your way now and always. ENJOY tonight’s Full Moon in Libra! It’s a biggie! It’s time to release people-pleasing. (Or if you can’t do that, add yourself to the list of people to please.)