Lemme tell ya about my FIRE FRIENDS.

Yeah, I know their astrological charts, so I could get specific about how very fiery they are, but let’s zoom out a bit and talk about how you’d know they’re my fire friends without ever seeing their charts.

They are:
~ action-oriented
~ solution-focused
~ passionate
~ brave
~ a LOT of fun

As for me? I have next-to-NO fire in my chart. Nah, I’m not saying I have ZERO fire (or, worse, that I cannot ever be any of the above-listed things), but I am saying that I have very little fire in my chart (especially compared to how much air and water I have in it). And that means I end up surrounding myself with fire friends!

I need them!!

How do you know what you need?

If you’ve seen your chart (which I walk you through, in my free show: What Your Birthday Says About You), you can SEE which of the elements might be under-represented, when compared with the rest.

But it’s also likely that you can just TELL.

🔥 Low on FIRE? Taking action may exhaust you.
🪨 Low on EARTH? The material world may confuse you.
🌪 Low on AIR? You rarely want to have a conversation.
💦 Low on WATER? Experiencing your feelings may be torturous.

Before you use the above list to critique yourself (or anyone else), there’s also the other end of the spectrum and how having an over-represented element can play out.

🔥 FIRE-heavy? You pop off/burn out faster than you think you should.
🪨 EARTH-heavy? Letting go is likely not an option for you.
🌪 AIR-heavy? It is possible to have TOO MANY ideas, y’know?
💦 WATER-heavy? You feel your feelings and everyone else’s too!

Do you see yourself in any of the above? Better yet, do you see how YOU are the exact elemental factor some of your friends need? We actually BECOME the planetary remediation that our friends are craving (and vice-versa). Isn’t that cool?

Lemmeknow which element feels lowest in your life, which one feels heaviest, or — if you’ve checked out your chart — which actually ARE that way in your chart and how you’ve seen that play out in your life.

Come chat with us at the Chart Harmony Discord server! I love getting to know you in this way!

Sending lots of love as we continue through this prickly eclipse season. Be gentle with yourself (and others, but FIRST with yourself).

All my love,

Bonnie Gillespie is simultaneously all characters in The Wizard of Oz (esp. the yellow-brick road). Wanna work with Bon? Start here. Thanks!