Something amazing happened last night. While we were watching the east coast feed of Saturday Night Live, the hubs said, “Pause it,” which is what he always says when there’s something more interesting on his…
Browsing Category Mindset
Population of Thirds
A third of the population on the planet loves you. You can do no wrong. Even before they’ve met you, they’re your superfan. A third of the world’s population hates you. On principle. There’s nothing…
Narrowing the Gap
I was lunching with one of my very favorite people (a publicist I met nearly 20 years ago — we both knew the night we met, at a Talent Managers Association event — that we…
The Continuum of Work
We do some really cool things in Expansive Capacity every month. (If you’re looking for monthly deep-dive masterminds, apply to join us here.) During our most recent meeting, we turned our attention to the difference…
Sledgehammer vs. Sandpaper
Something came up during our first live Zoom for the enoughness membership of Get in Gear for the Next Tier last week that was pretty *ooooh* to everyone not in on the shorthand. So much…
Pronoia and Willful Blindness
I have a question for you. It’s about your setpoint. Do you believe that someone is always running game on you? Out to get you? Taking advantage of you? Or do you believe that everything…
🏆 Celebrate with me! 🏆
21 years ago today, I moved (back) to LA. (I had done the LA thing after college… just in time for the Northridge Quake to welcome me to Hollywood for real… then send me back…
No One Taught Us How to Be Happy
There’s a very interesting conversation going on in my Expansive Capacity membership this month — and it’s extending beyond the membership space and out into our real lives as we connect with one another socially…
Gratitude, Then Goals
’tis the season… for talking about setting GOALS for the next year, right? I have a somewhat unique approach to goal-setting, and it starts with gratitude for exactly where we are RIGHT NOW. I call…
How to Battle Burnout with a Reboot
Hello beautiful people! Let’s talk about burnout. As I write this, I can kind of feel burnout wanting to creep in. As I’ve been shifting my relationship with healing, I’ve learned to recognize this stuff…