Be the lighthouse, not the liferaft. This is something I’ve been saying forever. We often see people out there in need of help and we get out in the water with them, hoping they’ll stop…
Posts tagged leadership
Stop Doing What Depletes You
Whether a lovely creative comes to me for showbiz advice, astrological perspective, or anything in between, the main commonality is what they’re looking for: Bon, what should I be doing? It can be “Bon, what…
“You’re too sensitive!”
NOTE: The whole time I’m writing this, I’m hearing those folks who’ve been cruel to me saying, “Oh my GAWD, Bonnie! You’re TOO SENSITIVE,” and the hearing of that is my childhood/lifetime trauma trying to…
The Booger Statue
FLASHBACK, JULY 2019: I’m about to kill off a course that’s not populating ~24 hours before the registration deadline. I don’t even WANT a rush of sales at the last minute due to how little…
unbotheredness
This is getting good. Not in the way I ever would've measured it years ago, but absolutely in the way I measure things now. I'm writing the email version of this post to you… YOU…
The USA’s Pluto Return and CONTROL
Meanwhile, at Twitter… Cressa Maeve Beer fixed this New York Times headline. Click to see the tweet. Seriously, y’all… the USA’s Pluto Return is all about reconciling VALUES and being honest about the origin story…
Preparing for the Revolution
On Saturn’s Day (Saturday), I’m off screens as much as possible. I’m off indulgences. I’m off complications. On Saturn’s Day, I embrace structure. I get down to the bones of things. I honor the power…
Whiteboards: Before and After
Click for Instagram version. These may not look that different, but they represent a significant shift in focus, which makes a big difference in how my work gets done, how I show up in the…
Proof of Possibility
Some folks don’t need much proof that something can be done in order to try it for themselves. Others need to see someone succeed… and that *someone* needs to be a lot like them in…
The Reward for Boundaries
I’ve been making changes in my business recently. I’ve created more boundaries, changed my availability, increased my NO budget. I hadn’t noticed how anxious and obsessed and dark I had gotten, continuing to do such…